
Then they actually have a harder time falling asleep, wake up moreĭuring the night, and often wake early in the morning. Stress hormones like adrenalin and cortisol kick in to keep them going.


You'd think a later bedtime would help them fall asleep more easily, but when they stay up later, they get over-tired, and Most toddlers do better with an early bedtime betweenĦ:30 and 7:30 pm. Toddlers need a set time to go to bed every night, so their body begins to expect sleep. Help your toddler set his "biological clock." It won't exactly settle your child down if you get impatient or angry. He also begins to learn about responsibility and making smart choices.Īnd, of course, allow plenty of time. That way, you’re on his side, and he doesn’t need to rebel against you. “Look, it’s 7:15! If we can get out of the tub now and brush your teeth, we’ll have time for an extra story before lights out at 7:30!” Over time your kid will begin to move herself through theĮven better, with a routine your child sees you as her advocate. Then point to the photos as you go through the routine every night. Create a chart with photos of your child doing all the steps of the bedtime routine, with a clock time next The best way to sidestep this is to have the clock, Toddlers who are showing oppositional behavior may resist moving along with the bedtime routine. Think of it as the best part of the day, when you get premium quality time with your little one. But don't think of bedtime as a chore that's taking The toddler's bed, then prayers or blessings, then lights out while you sing to your little one, is an example of a common and effective routine.īeware of too elaborate a routine, because they have a way of expanding to take more time. Dinner, then a bath, then stories, then kissing and tucking in all the stuffed animals who share Your goal is a sense of calm, safe, inevitability. Follow the same evening routine every night, if possible. The last few hours beforeīed should be calm and quiet.

Toddlers who've been racing around the apartment can't simply switch gears and decompress when you decide it's bedtime. Start the wind-down process early in the evening. To develop that habit, but your child can learn to put himself to sleep, and to stay asleep, eventually.

While some kids have a harder time falling asleep than others, allĬhildren do eventually start falling asleep without a parent's presence, and sleeping through the night most nights. The good news is that falling asleep is a habit, and all kids can learn it. You may get a better night's sleep with your toddler in another room, but your toddler instinctively feels safer in your presence. This is complicated by the fact that young humans seem designed to sleep with After all, many adults are insomniacs, and while some of them are certainly influenced by environmentalįactors, some of our ability to sleep easily seems to be innate. To be born "good" sleepers, and some aren't. Your toddler doesn't know it, but he needs his sleep. More resourcefully by a rested toddler than a tired one. Even the stress of saying goodbye to Mom and Dad when the babysitter comes can be handled To staying on top of their own bodily functions. Toddlers need adequate sleep to rise to the developmental challenges that fill their lives, from controlling their temper on the playground
